New American Standard Bible (©1995)
He who conceals a transgression seeks love, But he who repeats a matter separates intimate friends.
GOD’S WORD® Translation (©1995)
Whoever forgives an offense seeks love, but whoever keeps bringing up the issue separates the closest of friends.
Guess who the “whoever” is…
Ever had something you have put under the blood of Jesus keep coming up again? Guess who’s voice that is, well this verse make it obvious that that’s not love bringing it up. This is a chief strategy of the enemy. The bible says that a righteous man meditates day and night on Gods law. Jesus says all the law and the prophets are summed up by love the lord your god with all your heart , mind, soul, and strength, and love your neighbor as yourself. So bringing up a matter over and over is not seeking love which is the heart and summation of the law.